Lesbian Couple Murdered At Mardi Gras

In Port Bolivar, Texas, police are investigating the horrid murder of a lesbian couple whose bodies were discovered behind a trash dumpster by a beer delivery man.

Police officials are trying to assess the situation to see if a possible hate crime has taken place against the victims who are Britney Cosby and Crystal Jackson, both 24 years old; Jackson has a 5 year old daughter. The couples car is still missing and police are hoping to track the killer by tracking down the vehicle in question.

Apparently, the young couple took a trip to Mardi Gras and never returned which set off red alerts for their family members, who are hoping for public assistance in finding their loved ones murderer.

Peace and blessings to the Jackson and Cosby family for the loss of your angels, and I can only hope that justice will be dutifully served.

2014 LA

2014 Draft Prospect Michael Sam Owns His Truth

Former college football player of the Missouri Tigers Michael Alan Sam, comes out large, in charge, and unfettered.  

Reading articles on Sams' past although not entirely detailed still gives you an understanding of his struggles, yet he doesn't use the strife of his obstacles to hold him back -- he uses it as a propellant. 

It is indeed admirable and unselfish of this young man to stand in a line of fire, as to not make a spectacle of himself and his future teammates -- which is why he decided to come out before the NFL draft season. He thought it best to let all the hoopla take place now so that it can die down later. 

The youngest of eight children, Sam told the Times "I want to own my truth." 

And he does just that as he stated at a Los Angeles dinner party, when asked if he were nervous about the step he is taking to which he said "You all are the ones who are nervous. I'm excited."

Kudos to Michael Sam for being authentically who he is, by "owning his truth."

Side note: The NBA's first openly gay player Jason Collins, recently signed with the Brooklyn Nets.

2014 LA

ACLU Sues Utah for Ignoring Gay Marriages

After a federal judge in Utah overturned the state's same-sex marriage ban on December 20th -- deeming it unconstitutional as it violates gay and lesbian couples' rights, the U.S. Supreme court decided to grant Utah an emergency stay that not only halted same-sex marriages but cut off the benefits of all married couples.

As a result of this devastating action, the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) has proceeded in suing the state of Utah, in hopes of having full benefits restored for couples while the issuing of marriage licenses' takes a back burner -- but hopefully not for long.

Read more here.

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Utah Commits To Marriage Equality

Hawaii became the 16th state to legalize same-sex marriage, New Mexico followed suit as the 17th state, and astonishingly Utah came rolling in as the 18th state! 

It's like a ripple effect, it's like cause and effect, it's like the countdown to New Years Day.

#ItsLikeEquality 

#ItsLikeJustice

#ItsLikeCivilRights

2013 LA

Illinois Becomes 15th State to Legalize Same-sex Marriage

                                                                         Picture by Slate.com

Yesterday the Illinois General Assembly passed a bill legalizing same-sex marriage, making this officially the 15th state to do so. 

Gov. Pat Quinn has previously stated he will sign the bill into law when it reaches his desk.

And who dares to become the 16th state?

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New Jersey 14th State to Legalize Same-sex Marriage

Yesterday, the legalization of same-sex marriage in the state of New Jersey has become reality! 

The Governor of New Jersey Chris Christie fought vehemently to delay the process from moving forward, but the highest court in the state had the last say and recognized same-sex marriage as constitutional under the law. This makes New Jersey the 14th state to legalize same-sex marriage.

A spokesman for Christie said that he will comply with the ruling, though he doesn't like it. 

In the end this was indeed the most lawful thing to do. Mayor of Newark, New Jersey, Cory Booker who's headed to the U.S. Senate after winning a special election to fill the seat of the late Frank. R. Lautenberg, is only the 4th African American to EVER be elected to the U.S. Senate and will marry his first same-sex couple on Monday at 12:01am.

With liberty and justice for all. #JerseyPride

2013 LA

Father Disowns Daughter for Disowning Gay Son

This letter from a concerned father to his daughter, disputes her claim for kicking her son Chad out of the home. In the letter the father disowns his daughter the way she disowned her son, simply because he came out to her as gay. 

Many kudos to this parent for taking a stand for gay rights, while teaching his daughter a meaningful lesson in the process.

The letter reads - Dear Christine: 

"I'm disappointed in you as a daughter. You're correct that we have a "shame in the family", but mistaken about what it is. Kicking Chad out of your home simply because he told you he was gay is the real "abomination" here. A parent disowning her child is what goes "against nature. "

"The only intelligent thing I heard you saying in all this was that "you didn't raise your son to be gay." Of course you didn't. He was born this way and didn't choose it any more than he being left-handed. You however, have made a choice of being hurtful, narrow-minded and backward. So, while we are in the business of disowning our children, I think I'll take this moment to say goodbye to you. I now have a fabulous (as the gay put it) grandson to raise, and I don't have time for heartless B-word of a daughter."

"If you find your heart, give us a call."

-Dad

2013 LA

2nd New Mexico County Makes History

It took one couple to ignite the change for marriage equality within a New Mexico county, and that couple is Jen and Angelique Neuman! 

This couple devoted 20 years of their lives together and now that Jen (seen-r) is faced with life-threatening brain cancer, forcing the couple into precaution mode they sought marriage justice for the sake of their family.

This couple is amazing to me and I thank NCLR, for helping this family attain not only protection for their family, but also for the many others who will come after. This is one of those bittersweet moments, when there's triumph and sadness at the same time. Where something good comes from the bad. 

To this loving couple of 20 years, words probably can't express completely the grief that is now upon you, but I am truly grateful for your contribution to our American society. Thank you for making your bad/good. Congrats!

#Humbly #Sadly #SendingPrayers

2013 LA

The Supreme Court Overturns The Defense Of Marriage Act

Today the U.S. Supreme Court made history yet again, overturning the "Defense of Marriage Act" and rejecting anti-gay activists' call for California's Proposition 8. 

It is now law of the land that all married couples share the same rights, benefits, and treatment under federal law. All 13 states that currently allow same-sex marriage, are now required under federal law to recognize all marriages as equivalent.

It has been a long time coming but change finally came, oh yes it did; only 37 more states to go! Sheesh.

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Brittney Griner: 100% Lesbian and Unapologetic

All American women's basketball player Brittney Griner, who was the number one pick to play professional basketball for the Phoenix Mercury of the WNBA (Woman's Basketball Association), is 100% lesbian and unapologetic about it. 

Although Griner publicly came out this past April, her heroism is still a hot topic just as NBA player Jason Collins still is. 

Brittney told her heroic story of having to keep her sexuality to herself while attending Baylor University, a decision her coach said would "protect her". The 6 foot 8 athlete simply says, "Don't worry about what other people are going to say, because they're always going to say something, but, if you're just true to yourself, let that shine through. Don't hide who you really are." 

When asked was it hard for her to come out Griner stated, "It really wasn't too difficult," she said. "I wouldn't say I was hiding or anything like that. I've always been open about who I am and my sexuality. So, it wasn't hard at all. If I can show that I'm out and I'm fine and everything's OK, then hopefully the younger generation will definitely feel the same way. Just being bigger, my sexuality, everything," she told the AP. 

"I overcame it and got over it. Definitely something that I am very passionate about. I want to work with kids and bring recognition to the problem, especially with the LGBT community."

Griner finished her four-year Baylor career as the second all-time scorer in women's NCAA history with 3,283 points. 

She is the top shot-blocker ever, shattering both the men's and women's college marks with 748. She also had a record 18 dunks -- including 11 this season.

This young activist is poised to change the game of women's basketball, and no doubt will be a strong voice for the LGBT community.

Two enthusiastically thumbs up from me Brittney!

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Jason Collins Advances LGBTQ Progress

HUGE props to Jason Collins the Washington Wizards Center, who showed the enormity of his bravery and courage by proclaiming to the world that he no longer chooses anxiety over aptitude, and chose to be completely honest about his sexual orientation.

April 29, 2013, Collins unlocked the closet door that contained his deep-rooted secret of homosexuality, while waiting patiently for the world to react. 

The world reacted better than he had hoped and illuminated the positive progression of LGBTQ rights, not only in America but all around the world! 

This is a new day and people are becoming more tolerant of those that differ from them, and refuse to allow the fear of the unknown to mimic their lives.

Although Jason Collins isn't the first black gay athlete to be out and proud, he is the first in our generation and that alone carries tremendous weight with a great deal of heroism.

Some question whether Collins' NBA days are numbered due to his recent confession, but the man's talent and humility obviously speaks for itself.

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NBA Star Kenneth Faried Introduces His Two Moms

Denver Nuggets basketball player Kenneth Faried, took a stand for marriage equality while introducing his two mother's Mahasen and birth mother Waudda, to the world in support of same-sex loving couples.

This is a BIG deal and I appreciate this family being brave enough to open up their lives to the world. Kenneth Faried said it best when he said, "No one can tell me I can't have two mothers, because I really do."

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Music Mogul Clive Davis Talks Bisexuality

American record producer and music industry executive Clive Davis (seen above), made an appearance on the day time talk show 'The View', sharing some of his fondest memories within the industry. 

Then something unexpectedly happened. Mr. Davis, proceeded to answer a question regarding his intimate relationships with both women and men. He went on to proclaim his sexuality as "bi-sexual", not gay or straight.

Co-host Sherri Shepherd asks Clive Davis: "At this point in your career, why come out now?

Clive Davis' reply: "First of all, if you do your autobiography, you're not going to omit an important part of your life. My life was open. I've got 4 children, and I've got 6 grandchildren."

[....]

"When after my second marriage failed, and I've only been with women, and I'm still attracted to women -- it's a state that the public, they always say "You're either gay or straight or you're lying", that's not true. I am attracted to women, but only with the failure of my second marriage, only then did I say could I have a loving relationship with a man? And I opened myself up to it. So for a while I saw women, I saw a man, until I got into a relationship with a man. So if anything positive can come at this age that we're living in, bi-sexuality is real and I'm experiencing it."

It's commendable that the record label veteran is giving insight to who he "really" is. With so many stigma's plaguing the LGBT community, it's understandable that it can be difficult to live freely amongst those who may differ in opinion. 

Mr. Davis being the big time celebrity that he is, was unapologetic when using his new autobiography 'The Soundtrack of my Life', as a way to kick down another door of inequality. 

His stance on sexuality being fluid while admitting that bi-sexuality in fact does exist, creates a forum for intriguing discussion.

I use to secretly wish that more well known public figures who were in the closet would come out, simply because of the message it would send to so many LGBT youth that their lives are worth living. 

Often times small town heroes aren't recognized but the well known and well connected, usually sustains a bigger platform to reach millions of people within a few minutes. Ultimately, making their messages of choice way more effective then let's say, mine. 

I always say, if your well known and praised for your talents, but your same-sex loving identity hinders you from being fully yourself, in the long run it's better to just be who you are. Being who you are, frees you from the extra stress you would have incurred by not being who you are. 

If you feel you'll lose loyalty status from your fans should you decide to come out, then they weren't true fans to begin with but at least give the fans a chance.

Mr. Davis, thank you for your honesty and for discovering amazing artist's, who have given us years of wonderful music coupled with long lasting memories. I look forward to reading your autobiography sir.

2013 LA

President Obama's Infamous "Peace Quote" To The People

#PROGRESS

2013 LA

God Wants Segregation

Reverend Dr. Phil Snider (seen above), of Brentwood Christian Church in Springfield, Mo., cited a speech regarding a pending gay rights ordinance.

During Mr. Snider's speech he apologized when he seemed to veer off track while trying to make his point on gay rights, but instead admitted that his speech on the biblical justifications against gay rights ordinances, were actually taken from speeches written over the course of multiple decades about civil rights for African-Americans.

Mr. Snider's exact words during his moment of correction were,

1:28 - "When you run into conflict with God's established order you have trouble. You do not produce harmony, you produce destruction and trouble and our city is in the greatest danger that it has ever been and it's history. The reason is we have gotten away from the bible of our four father's. You see the right of segregation - - I'm sorry, hold on. The right of segregation is clearly established by the holy scriptures, both by precept and example."

2:00 - (Interruption by authority) "One minute."

2:01 - "I'm sorry, I've brought the wrong notes with me this evening. Ah, I've borrowed my argument from the wrong century. It turns out what I've been reading to you this whole time, are direct quotes from white preachers from the 1950's and the 1960's, all in support of racial segregation. All I have done is simply take out the phrase "racial integration", and substituted it with the phrase "gay rights". 

I guess the arguments I've been hearing around Springfield lately sounded so similar to these, that I got them confused. I hope you will not make the same mistake. I hope you will stand on the right side of history. Thank you."

This speech took place August 13, 2012, at the Springfield City Council, in regards to sexual orientation and gender identity. 

Apparently, Mr. Snider felt he needed to go before the council and make a case of why gay and lesbians shouldn't have their personal rights and to seal the deal, he decided to incorporate scripture from the holy Bible to prove his point.

However, because Mr. Snider was so caught off guard by his own notes he had to quickly explain his position. So he told the truth of his scripture notes coming from the 1950's and 1960's, racist white preachers. Wow!

Did the Reverend not read the entire scripture all the way through before deciding to use it? How could he not know what the scripture cited? 

It sounds as if Mr. Snider read the first few sentences and immediately equated it to homosexuality. The crazy part is, he actually uses racist scriptures/notes from racist white pastors to teach his congregation. And we wonder why so much hate exists. It exists because we'll always have people teaching it. 

The social stigma for gays is so reminiscent of civil rights for blacks, that many people often use the phrase "gay is the new black", which is how this blog received it's title. Some people are offended by this phrase because they feel being black shouldn't be a sin, but that being gay is due to what it says in the Bible. 

It was interesting to discover that Mr. Snider's scripture tools for teaching, actually hid centuries ago secrets of how racist white pastors taught their churchgoers that the separation of races is what God commanded.

Where are these Bibles coming from, and how is it that white preachers were able to interject their ideas so easily? Who centuries ago, placed and continues to place these oppressive supposed "rules of law" within the Bible? 

This latest piece of revelation will call into question, what is really written in all Bibles? And why do writings in the Bible change so much?  

Who has had in the past and who currently has the authority, to make revisions to the Bible?  

Why is it that white men and/or Republicans seem to always generate racism throughout history? 

Are all the social stigma's that currently plague the future of our country, brought upon us by hypocritical and deceitful lies used by man to cause division among the races, or did God truly feel that segregation and racism were key components to forming a civil society?

Common sense really; but I'm still looking to get my questions answered.

2012 LA

Hospital Discriminates Against Pregnant Lesbian Couple

Domestic partners Brittany Leon and Terri-Ann Simonelli, stated that Spring Valley Hospital in Las Vegas, NV, didn't grant Simonelli decision-making power when Leon had complications during her pregnancy. 

Click here to see article in it's entirety.

Anti-Gay Letter From A Father To His Gay Son Goes Viral

A vicious letter sent from a father to his newly out and proud gay son, has recently gone viral. 

This letter has spread to several LGBTQ sites and remains a constant reminder of why marriage equality -- and equality for Gay and lesbians period is so necessary. 

The letter states: "James: This is a difficult but necessary letter to write. I hope your telephone call was not to receive my blessing for the degrading of your lifestyle. I have fond memories of our ties together, but that is all in the past. 

Don't expect any further conversations with me. No communication at all. I will not come to visit, nor do I want you in my house. You've made your choice, though wrong it may be. God did not intend for this unnatural lifestyle. If you choose not to attend my funeral, my friends and family will understand. Have a good birthday and a good life. No present exchanges will be accepted. 

Goodbye, Dad."

How can a parent disown their child, as if he were never a son? 

So his fond memories are good enough even though his son is still alive and well? And if the father's family and friends will understand why his son chooses not to attend his funeral, then does that mean they all think and feel the same way as this parent?

At the end of the letter the parent had the nerve to still call himself Dad!?

That title was obviously revoked, when he decided to disown his son. 

2012 LA

New Gay Music Video Hits The Lime Light

Indie rapper Murs, released a new music video for the single “Animal Style” in which he kisses another man. 

The west coast emcee Murs plays the part of Roderick, a high school student who is in love with another male student in his school. The lyrics take you through the lives of Roderick and his secret boyfriend Jonathan; how they break up because friends find out, and the dramatic ending to their love story.  

Rapper Murs is known and very respected in the underground music scene. As a member of the west coast group Living Legends, Murs has released over 20 records in a seven-plus year span.

I commend Murs for giving light to yet another topic that has long plagued our outlook on the LGBTQ community. This story is a real story, and one that the gay community can relate too. Through this video, I can only hope that homophobic individuals become educated about the lives of LGBTQ people. 

Some homophobic rhetoric sounds like this: "If you're gay, then you're not a "real" man."  

My response: "And what defines a real man? How about this, "real" men shouldn't have to cover up their sexuality by co-existing with a woman for front, only to infect the woman as a result of living a double life."

"This video will make our children think being gay is acceptable." 

My response: "And why should it be illegal?"

"This video will poison our children's minds!"  

My response: "As opposed to video games, television, divorce, gang affiliations, drugs, racism, diseases, homelessness, suicide, discrimination, bullying, pedophiles etc. My point is, there are way more issues detrimental to a child's advancement then who they fall in love with. Falling in love is natural. Getting your heart broken is natural. This is apart of life."

"All gay people should be killed!" 

My response: "Then I guess that means exterminating all of human civilization because as we all should know, heterosexual's help to produce gay children. 

Actually, God produces gay children, that's why the cycle will never end! God will continue to bless couples with gay children, until people aren't ignorant to the fact that gay and lesbians are not mistakes.

If love is supposed to outweigh, surpass, and completely submerge all evil, then why does hate still strongly exist? 

Think about it. If God is love, why is it so hard to simply love? And who says God's love is limited to a select group of people? This kind of thinking had to have come from somewhere, right? 

It's even more interesting that the current American presidential election seems to portray the exact hate filled messages.

We have one candidate wanting to help 100% of the country without discrimination, hesitation, or judgement. Then, we have the other candidate who wishes to only help a select group of people, the 2 percent, all while discriminating, judging, and placing burdensome cruelty amongst the majority. 

Now where does this divisiveness come from again?

2012 LA

Pastor Bradlee Dean's Homophobic Rhetoric Lands Him In Court

Bradlee Dean (seen-r), pastor of 'You Can Run But You Can't Hide Ministry', filed a 50 million dollar suit against msnbc host Rachel Maddow (seen below) and journalist Andy Birkey, who both used a portion of Dean's radio show in their reporting. 

Pastor Dean stated both journalists took his comments out of context while defaming his name. 

Dean's attorney Larry Klayman, stated that after the reports were announced Mr. Dean received many death threats. The case is still ongoing but a Washington, D.C. judge ordered Bradlee Dean to pay Ms. Maddow's court fees.

In Bradlee Dean's words: "Muslims are calling for the executions of homosexuals in America. This just shows you they themselves are upholding the laws that are even in the Bible of the Judeo-Christian God, but they seem to be more moral than even the American Christians do, because these people are livid about enforcing their laws. They know homosexuality is an abomination...If America won’t enforce the laws, God will raise up a foreign enemy to do just that."

I guess Mr. Dean saw nothing wrong with using this kind of rhetoric? It appears to me that Rachel Maddow, didn't take Mr. Dean's words out of context at all. 

Both reporters have more of a national platform than Bradlee Dean, so when they reported on this matter his words spread like wild fire. 

Don't hate the player Mr. Dean, hate your own game that got you into this mess in the first place. Will this court case make Mr. Dean, think more carefully about his word usage?

2012 LA

Chicago Christians Issues Non-Verbal Message To The LGBT Community

No written article needed, as these pictures already speak a thousand words. 

Chicago Christians attended this months 2012 Chicago Gay Pride parade with a strong message.

The photo below shows the acceptance of their apologies by a gay pride participant. Like the song goes, "What the world needs now, is love sweet love -- it's the only thing that there's just to little of."

2012 LA