Gay Airman Comes Out To Dad

Today officially ends the era of 'Don't ask, Don't Tell', which was a law put in place by our government to discriminate, humiliate, and degrade all gay and lesbians serving in the military. Under the watchful eye of President Obama, this law exists no more.

Click here to see an airman calling his father today September 20, 2011, to tell him he is gay. 

This is a huge moment for many gay and lesbian military individuals, and I hope watching this video will encourage others to hold their heads up high while owning their truths.

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Gay Student Protests for LGBT Rights At Michelle Bachmann Rally

Kudos to Gabe Aderhold (seen above), a seventeen year old gay student who stood his ground during a speech given by Congresswoman Michele Bachmann on the campaign trail earlier this month. 

Aderhold stated that before heckling Michele Bachmann at the Iowa State Fair, his mission was to help educate the representative about how harmful her rhetoric is against gay and lesbians who are also her constituents. 

As a state Senator Michele Bachmann also led aggressive efforts to amend the state’s constitution, to prohibit same-sex couples from marrying.

But Aderhold seemed adamant in bringing awareness to gay issues, due to the death of a family friend who committed suicide in 2009 after being bullied. The friend was only 15 years old. 

Aderhold expressed that,“It is her responsibility to address social issues in her area, and there have been six suicides in the last year from being bullied in her district,” the student commented to The Des Moines Register -- prior to heckling Michele Bachmann today at the Iowa State Fair.

Bachmann spoke for three minutes at the soapbox today. When she stopped talking Aderhold stood up and shouted: “You treat me like a second-class citizen,” before chanting. “Shame on you!”

Bachmann’s husband Marcus, operates a mental-health clinic in Lake Elmo, Minnesota. He has faced scrutiny for the clinic’s purported efforts to help clients “pray the gay away."

The young activist also made sure to mention Bachmanns' senate efforts, in keeping the ridiculous praying techniques. “You can’t pray the gay away,” he screamed at Marcus Bachmann, who turned away and did not respond. 

The congresswoman commented earlier that she would shake hands with people in the audience, but after being heckled she quickly left the area.

Gabe, thank you for standing up not just for yourself but for all LGBT people. You are a hero! Keep up the good work!

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New York Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage

June 24, 2011, New York became the sixth largest state to legalize same-sex marriage. 

The New York Assembly passed same-sex marriage legislation twice before in 2007 and 2009, but in both cases it stalled in the state senate as it nearly did again last week. 

The bill passed after legislators agreed on language allowing religious organizations, to refuse to perform services or lend space for same-sex weddings.

New York is home to more than 42,000 same-sex couples according to an analysis of U.S. census data conducted by the Williams Institute. This means among other things, that the number of same-sex couples living in states allowing same-sex marriage has doubled overnight.

Massachusetts was the first state to legalize gay marriage in 2004, beginning a trend that will quickly submerge most states in a decade.

A report last month from New York's Senate Independent Democratic Conference, estimated the state would earn nearly $400 million dollars over the next three years from gay and lesbian couples getting married; including tourism, weddings, sales-tax revenue, and wedding license fees.

This moment means so much to gay and lesbian couples all over the country. But to all my gay and lesbian peeps out there, please do not be naive to the fact that things can change. This is a big accomplishment however, don't forget what happened in California when gay marriage passed and then was suddenly revoked. 

The big difference between the two states is that California passed a court ruling for gay marriage, and New York passed legislation which President Obama will sign into law. 

When California legalized same-sex marriage in 2008, I fully believed it was strictly for the purpose of increasing revenue within that state. This country was headed for a second Great Depression and ex-Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, had run the state of California into the ground and so much so, that instead of Californians receiving their income taxes in the mail they received an I.O.U.!

A little advice: Don't have a ridiculously huge and expensive wedding until you know for sure that gay marriage is the law of the land. Should marriage equality be revoked for whatever reason all it leaves you with is debt up to your ears and a broken heart, and leaves New York with increased revenue.

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Miss Lawrence 'Closet Freak' (2011)

Yeeesss Miss Lawrence! Work it!

If you're a regular viewer of The Real Housewives of Atlanta, then you couldn't have missed the public performance of Miss Lawrence. OMG! Talk about working it out! Now this is "real" talent -- hint Kim Zolciak.

Miss Lawrences' vocals are undeniably excellent! The deep, velvety, smoothness of her voice reminds me of a modern day, Donny Hathaway. 

The beat of the music knocks hard but gives strong bass, while Miss Lawrence's beautiful baritone voice compliments the track very well.

When listening to the song you feel intensity, energy, happy, and whatever was sleeping inside you immediately wakes up and forces your arms, shoulders, legs, and feet, to move in unison while your head rocks and fingers snap!

Kandi Burrus, you did an excellent job with production and I hope you take this young stunna all the way to the top!

Click below to hear song. So AmAzInG!

2011 LA